Meet Moxie and Lebowski!

Last Thursday I drove to Glouster and adopted a three month old, male, buff orange and white, polydactyl kitten to be friends with the eight week old, feral, female calico that turned up on my mother’s doorstep on Cape Cod two weeks ago. They are my reward for successfully completing sobtember and a chance to finally lay my past to rest. It’s been 2 years since my ex forced me to give up my cat Hooligan, who was my four-legged fur ball baby. Although the people I re-homed him with assured me I could take him back whenever I could, they divorced and re-homed all of their pets, including Hooli. He went to live with a little girl and her family somewhere on the south shore. When I confronted them and asked why I wasn’t consulted or even contacted about it, they only had a lame excuse.

They are by no means a replacement for Hooli, but a chance for me to let go of the life I once had and to live the one I have now. So far they are a joy, even though they take some of the smelliest poops ever. Justin named the boy Lebowski. He is the chillest kitten on the planet. Where most cats are explorers and having kitty nascar around the room, he is very shy and laid back. I worked with him extensively this weekend, coaxing him out of hiding place after hiding place with treats. He wasn’t food aggressive, but he is so skinny and he just wants to eat everything as fast a possible, which makes me think he has been very hungry in his short life. Since working with him and handling him often he has become a total lap cat. All he wants is to snuggle, be petted and loved. He will lean so hard into your hands when you’re petting him that when you stop, he falls over. He’s mostly the color of a white russian and behaves like The Dude.

(Since beginning to write this post, Moxie has gone to sleep in my closet and he has really come out of his shell and has been all over me and my laptop.)

The Dude abides.

Moxie is the most fearless cat I have ever seen and she weighs less than a pound and can fit in a tea cup. All she wants to do is climb up on to stuff so she can jump/pounce on Lebowski. She explores everything and likes to drink out of my cups. Bringing her home, she couldn’t be bothered to stay in the box, but after a while, she caught on she needed to stay in it, but stood on her hind legs, with her front paws on the top of the box, looking around at everything as we drove by. At one point she crawled up on to the head rest on the passenger side, jumped to my shoulder and snuggled into my lap, which for something that is eight weeks old is impressive and courageous, so she’s my little Moxie. She also hasn’t finished the weaning process so she snuggles up with Lebowski and tries to nurse on his neck. He takes it like a champ and we couldn’t stop laughing at it all afternoon.

You got Moxie, kid!

 

Silver Fox.

There’s something about a hint of salt and pepper than makes a girl weak at the knees. I think it’s the suggestion that along with a sprinkling of steel comes a worldliness and manliness that is quite irresistible. It’s the unwavering confidence of Jose Mourinho, the knowing twinkle of George Clooney, the innate elegance of Cary Grant. You can be assured that this is a guy who has been around the block and knows exactly what he wants. He has honed his social skills, refined his business acumen and become a master between the sheets… One of my friends has a philosophy that you shouldn’t consider a future with a male until he hits 35, because only then does he upgrade from boy to man. I fancy that it’s the scattering of silver that should be the true sign.

Snow My God.

So this week we were hit with a Nor’Easter that dropped 19 inches of snow on us. It was by no means the blizzard of 1978.  In many respects it wasn’t nearly as big as most others.  We get these about once every couple years, the biggies… the over 1 foot storms, and so this was really just like many others.  It was perhaps, the best forecast, and the timing was perfect.  Just enough time to get home yesterday after work, hunker down for the day, and be ready to rock for the following morning. I hadn’t planned to comment on this blizzard; I tend to ignore them whenever possible. New Englanders are used to them. But I was awakened yesterday morning by the snow insistently thumping my window, demanding my attention, insisting, lordly in its sway that I gaze out and make my obeisance to awe and wonder.

5:30am. Back Yard

9:30am Back Yard.

Snowmobile. 12:30pm

Shoveling. Snow is past my knees. 2:30pm

It's like a cave in the snow!

I had to push snow out of the way to open the door. Snow is flush with the floorboards.

I thought I parked my car around here somewhere?

Buried Treasure.

Good News! I kept digging and I found a Dacia Sandero!

Called it a day around 5:00 PM. This was after I had kicked off a lot of snow.